At the end of the year WordPress sent a recap. I glanced at it but did not really read it. I have not posted regularly in a while. Honestly it sat unread in my inbox until the other day. The recap itself was not too interesting since it only covers what I posted, which was not much, but it brought to mind a very stressful year. It brought to mind laughter and tears, memories that were at times busy, frustrating, exciting, painful, stressful and of course love filled. At many times I thought of posting to help me clear my head but for so many reasons at the time it just did not seem right.
Sometimes the weight on your shoulders seems too heavy. It often seems to great to bear but when you are about to scream, it is good idea to step back and take a second to look down the road you have just traveled if for nothing else than perspective.
Early in the year I was approached to run for political office with 2 others for township council. We won the primary but in the end I fell short by about 30 votes of winning in the general election. Months of meetings, greetings, hand shakes and campaigning. Politics can be ugly. It was a very interesting experience that I am thrilled I attempted but to be fully honest I am just as thrilled to leave behind. It was time consuming and stressful on my family especially my girls who have grown accustomed to my being home every night to put them to bed. We could have done good things for our township had we won but each day I know I do great things for my girls, and in the end that is enough for me.
At the end of May I received an emergency phone call from school to pick-up Megan after a recess accident. During a kick ball game she had run into another student and had fallen. She hit her head on the concrete and was cut up pretty good. An urgent care visit and many tears later we realized we had our first broken bone of the family. Much celebration came when the cast was off at the end of June in time for swimming.
Sadly this was actually the second experience with emergency rooms for us in the year. One of the more stressful and downright terrifying events of the year was in early May when Frank fell short of breath and began having chest pains. Within a few short minutes he could barely stand on his own. We rushed him to the hospital where he stayed for several days. After a cardiac catheterization, a heart attack, along with any heart issue was ruled out thankfully. No perfect answer was ever fully provided to us as to the exact cause but again, thankfully, he has been fine ever since.
Of course we had the normal hustle and bustle of travel soccer, basketball, music lessons and Karate. Both girls achieved their red belts this year. Years of work and focus, not an easy achievement.
We went to Niagara falls Canada in July and had a wonderful time, although the prices were ridiculous. We did the normal tourists things and enjoyed some nice family time. We also took a ride to the Toronto Zoo to see the Giant Panda’s. Amazing creatures!
During the holidays we were treated to a performance of the school’s fifth grade chorus, of which Megan is a member, singing along with the South Jersey Philharmonic Symphony. Megan was so thrilled to be on stage. It was something special to witness!
My husband worked for a well know large company which I will not name. Over the years he was subjected to pay cuts in the name of streamlining which we accepted. Things over the last year had been stressful but came to a head in mid November when he was notified that the decision had been made to lay him off along with hundreds of others. (Yes the media says things are so much better, question what you are told). Christmas was both a blessing where he was able to enjoy the girls without work but also extremely stressful since he had not landed a job. Tomorrow 2/9 he starts a new chapter in our lives with a new company. Good luck to my Frank and we love you!
I continue to turn to this forum as a sounding board and I apologize if this is a bit rambling. I realize it is late but I wish everyone a happy New Year and say cheers to new starts, new years and new opportunities!